Home

As some people may know, come the 17th, I'm visiting my parents for the first time in PA. I never got to see the house in the five months that they've lived in it, minus pictures from before they moved in, so I'm rather excited for that. Plus I get to see my feline sisters again <3 Oh my god I missed them so much.

But the main reason I'm going is for my own health. I have been really emotionally and physically icky the past month or so, and not just when my monthly demon rolls around. My suicidal/murderous side has started to crawl back to me, and I started losing motivation in everything- work, studying, dubbing, etc.

It's not because of my love at all, no. Love has been the most understanding, patient and kind person in the world. It's because of his incompetent father and grandfather who at this point should be dead(according to health problems), a loudmouth mother who doesn't have any consideration for anyone and always blows up over EVERYTHING. Someone is sick in this house every week, and to go a day let alone five hours without yelling or door slamming being heard is a miracle. Even my best moods have been ruined because of these stupid things. This stress is carrying into my workspace and is over-all unpleasant. I've bitten so many times since I moved in that the patch of skin is practically rubber and permanently miscoloured. 

Already I can feel the wear of living here in the place in which I'll never consider a home with people who I'll never consider family(minus Love and perhaps his brother). I've been wanting to visit my folks for months, and finally I have the chance.

I have contemplated moving in with them. If this visit does as much good as I think it's going to, and if I get all of my stress back once I return to Jersey, I'm getting right back on that bus and going home(to PA). I can find a job, keep up my self studying until I can afford culinary school. My love and I will have to stomach a long distance relationship until one of us finds an apartment and has the other move in. I know we can do it. I really believe.