I'm starting to realize what living with someone does to a relationship.
I mean, the feelings are still there, don't get me wrong. But bickering becomes much more frequent. Time when you really wish that you could be alone, other times wishing you could be close, even if you're still in the same room. The intimacy level dropped staggeringly low already(then again, we still have a tarp for a door, but still), and the stress levels increased.
Not to mention the stuff that indirectly hits the relationship. Like his parents, particularly his mom. Not only does she not have a filter or a noise setting other than 'really fucking loud'(and has woken us up on multiple times), but she's just really trying my patience. Maybe it's just because I miss my mom. I dunno.
I've been keeping in touch with my family regularly. I want to see them, get away from my stress for a tiny bit. Though that won't happen until the next time they come down here so they can pick me up, or until I learn how to drive.
I really don't like how stressed out I've been lately. I can't control my emotions, and I've been biting non-stop for a few days, and snapping at him. He's very tolerant of this and knows why I do it, but I feel horrible for doing it and not being able to control myself.
I wish I could have a day for myself. No one else in the house, nothing to stress about, no interaction with anyone.
Perhaps that's a bit too much to ask for.
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